Good Sunday morning, friends.
Fall is officially here, and with it comes that familiar transition from warm summer days to cooler mornings, cozy evenings, and a slower pace of life.
There is something about this time of year that makes me think about how naturally we move from one season into the next. Summer brings its own activities, gatherings, and routines, while fall and winter invite us to settle in a little more.
And as the seasons change, so do the ways we spend our time.
This weekend, we had our end-of-summer family cookout. It was a little later than usual this year because life has gotten busier and some things have changed. In past years, we usually gathered before our daughter headed back to college, while the weather was still warm enough to enjoy the pool and sit outside.
This year looked a little different.
Our daughter went back to college earlier since she is no longer living on campus, but she came home with her boyfriend for the weekend. Some family members already had plans, and others had to work, so our gathering was smaller than usual.
But it was special nonetheless.
Our oldest daughter built a fire, the younger kids played outside and made s’mores, and the adults sat around talking. It was definitely a little more tame than some of our past gatherings, and everyone headed home much earlier than they used to.
But you know what? It was still a wonderful evening.
I love having family and friends over. I love the noise, the conversations, the food, and those moments when everyone is together without worrying about what comes next.
Because when I really think about it, the most important things to me have always been my family and friends.
The details of our gatherings may change over the years. The kids grow up, schedules get busier, college and work take priority, and the traditions we once had may not look exactly the same anymore.
But the opportunity to spend time together is still there, and that is what matters most.
As we move into fall, I know our gatherings will naturally become less frequent.
The days get shorter, the temperatures drop, and we all begin settling in for the colder months. Our homes become a little cozier, evenings are spent indoors, and the holidays become those special times when we come together, catch up, and make new memories.
There is something comforting about that rhythm.
We gather a little less often, but when we do, those moments feel even more special.
I think there is a lesson in that for all of us.
We spend so much time trying to keep up with everything and hold on to the routines we are used to. Sometimes we forget that change is a natural part of life.
Just as we transition from summer into fall, our lives move through different seasons, too.
There are seasons when our calendars are full of gatherings, activities, and celebrations. There are seasons when life is quieter and our time is spent at home. And there are seasons when we are simply trying to figure out how to fit everything in.
None of those seasons has to look exactly like the one before it.
Maybe the goal isn’t to keep everything the same. Maybe it is to appreciate what each season brings and make room for what matters most in the one we’re living.
As I sit here this morning writing this before church, my mind is already trying to plan the day.
My daughter and her boyfriend are getting ready to head back to school, and I have a to-do list waiting for me.
The chicken coop and run need to be cleaned, and I need to pick up some more treats for the girls. I also have two Waldough gluten-free sourdough loaves bulk fermenting on the kitchen counter.
With the cooler temperature in the house today, I’m guessing they may need six to eight hours to finish their bulk fermentation. Then I’ll add the inclusions, place them in the refrigerator overnight, and hopefully bake them tomorrow.
There is laundry, cleaning, and all the other little things that seem to find their way onto a weekend list.
But today, I have a little picture in my mind of how I hope the day ends.
I’m hoping to have everything on my list finished by the time the bread is ready to go into the refrigerator.
And then?
I want to spend my Sunday evening curled up with my September book club read and a hot cup of tea.
Nothing extravagant. Nothing that requires a big plan.
Just a quiet evening at home, enjoying the simple things that make this season feel special.
And honestly, that sounds pretty wonderful to me.
As I think about this weekend and the transition into fall, I’m reminded that we don’t have to make every season bigger, busier, or more memorable than the last.
Sometimes a smaller gathering is exactly what we need.
Sometimes a quiet evening at home is just as special as a house full of people.
And sometimes the best way to welcome a new season is to stop trying to squeeze everything into the day and simply enjoy the moments we have.
I know the next few months will bring plenty of things to do, people to see, and responsibilities to manage. There will be holidays to prepare for, family to spend time with, and all the everyday things that never seem to slow down completely.
But I’m learning that I don’t have to do it all at once.
I can enjoy the time I have with my family, take care of the things that need my attention, and still make room for a little quiet at the end of the day.
Because this chapter of life is changing, just like the seasons around me.
And I want to be present for it.
So as we welcome cooler mornings, cozy evenings, and all the little changes that come with fall, I hope we can all remember to make room for what matters most.
To appreciate the gatherings, even when they’re smaller.
To welcome the quiet moments, even when our to-do lists are long.
And to give ourselves permission to enjoy the season we’re in, rather than wishing it looked like the one before.
Wishing you a peaceful Sunday and a beautiful start to this new season.
Until next Sunday,
Kristen
Rooted in This Chapter
